Why
use contracts in hypnotherapy?
HypnosisAustralia,
May 2008
By
Dr Tracie O'Keefe DCH, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Psychotherapist &
Counsellor
Editorial Director of HypnosisAustralia Online.
Trust is
everything between a therapist and their patient/client and it is fascinating
how trust arises and disintegrates. Some clients will engage you because
they like your CV, the look of your face and even because you are what
they consider a little bit out there. When you are established, much of
your work comes through referrals weeks, months or even decades after
you treated or helped someone.
Therapy is
such an intimate relationship where clients make themselves vulnerable
to you in order for you to help them with a myriad of problems, but only
if they trust you. There may even be times when you set a client up to
be angry with you to force them to be independent and get on with solving
their own dilemmas. Our job as therapists is not always to be liked but
to motivate the client to move into a resourceful state even when they
are not aware we are using such techniques. Trust, however, must always
be one of the major underlying principles of our work so the client knows
you are willing to go that extra mile for them when required.
All the preceding
is, however, not so far apart from the fact that you, in professional
practice, require remuneration for your services; or if you work for an
agency the client has a contract with them too. Whilst contracts are talked
about during training of therapists many new therapists have very little
idea how to handle the financial side of their business. The contract
is based on many kinds of social rules, expectancies and situational expectations
of the client. Some of those may have been discussed before the first
session but some may come under what is called unconscious expectations
that have never ever been consciously addressed.
Hypnosis
and the therapies around it are considered quite mystical to many clients
that walk in the door and it may be something they have heard about but
have no real knowledge of the process of hypnosis or what it entails.
Since hypnosis is a nominalisation, offering over-protracted descriptions
of it to clients is self-defeating because hypnotherapy is an experiential
therapy not an analytical extravaganza, as Milton Erickson was apt to
point out.
Many clients
are worried of course if they can afford therapy or if they can afford
to continue in therapy. They have not generally come to the conclusion
that after therapy they will be handing their affairs better because their
attention span is in the short-term focus, trying to deal with their immediate
problems. So as the therapist it is our duty to help them to make the
suit according to the cloth they bring with them and this must include
respect around financial issues and the therapy process. Misunderstandings
always arise out of one partner not being aware of the contract or refusing
to honour their side of the bargain and inevitably such misunderstandings
lead to ill feeling and can undo therapeutic gain.
Clients must
also know what is expected of them during the therapeutic process so that
they can orientate themselves to the generative process of change. Whether
this is done orally or in writing it can never be fully explored but there
does need to be a basic understanding. The problem, however, with verbal
contracts is there is not an official record of them and they are widely
open to interpretation. It is very easy to move into the 'he said/ she
said' mode of thinking after the event.
For the most
part well-trained therapists get very good results with their clients.
There are times, however, when therapeutic accidents may occur and therapists
find themselves under scrutiny. In one's whole career, therapists who
help people with profound mental health problems, will encounter at least
one suicide. We are not gods but simply professionals doing the best we
know how for our clients and it is imperative that records of the contract
between the therapist and the client are clear.
From time
to time therapists also get sued and some of these law suits may be valid
but others could be what are called nuisance suits where people are opportunistically
after a pay-out. Again in these circumstances the onus is on the practitioner
to prove the circumstances of therapy, showing what the agreement was
and what took place. Let us remember that the ideas of today are going
to be the amusement of future generations.
There are
times when clients don't want to pay their bill even when they are in
ecstasy about the service you have given them. As therapists, however,
you still have to pay your accountant, insurance premiums and taxes as
well as staff. So it is nothing less than smart to use written contracts
with your clients. It takes not more then five minutes on the first session
to get your clients to look through a contract and sign it. Legally you
must also give them a copy of the contract so everyone knows what is expected
of them to a responsible degree and that prevents misunderstandings.
Contracts
can be written to suit the therapy that you do and clients can have sight
of the contract before they commission your services. You do no have to
be bound to curing the ear-picking habit of 60 years in 10 minutes but
you can be clear about how you will seek to find the best way to help
them. This is not a substitution for a code ethics but simply a better
way to make it clear to everyone how they can best be comfortable in a
new situation with someone they have not met before.
Sure, there
are therapists who come up with a host of excuses why this would not be
a good idea. They talk about how it deflects from their honour or how
everyone should trust everyone else but in reality they cannot define
those expectations and certainly, if their clients are asked, they are
unsure about them too. Contracts are part of our everyday life from purchasing
a tram ticket to buying a house. Is it not disrespectful to ask your clients
to forgo such a clear understanding of what the therapeutic process will
entail?
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May 2008
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